Dad and Mom had meetings
What is the most important thing your parents did for you as a child?
February 10 was my parents’ 48th wedding anniversary. When I woke up that morning, I paid attention to the first thing that came to mind when I thought about their marriage. What was the first image to form in my memory when I thought about Dad and Mom together?
Here it is: Meetings.
My parents had meetings.
The defining image of my parents’ marriage is the memory of them sitting next to each to have a meeting at the dining room table.
Some of those meetings were about money (which was always tight). Some of them were about church and school activities, home projects, or vacations. Sometimes, Dad and Mom had meetings about marriage itself.
I want to be clear: I’m not talking about talking. I mean that when my parents called a meeting with each other, they had an agenda, a set place, and a set time. They...